How Eskimos Keep Their Babies Warm: Parenting wisdom from around the world, by Mei-Ling Hopgood.
How Eskimos Keep Their Babies Warm is Mei-Ling Hopgood’s account of not only her own adventures in parenting but also details her extensive research into parenting practices across the world. From Buenos Aires to Japan she recounts the various differing cultural approaches to such parenting dilemmas as sleep-routines, potty training, playtime squabbles and healthy eating.
Some of her findings are both enlightening and heart-warming and as a mother of a somewhat spirited toddler it, at times, made me stop and reconsider some of my own parenting strategies. Chapter two, ‘How the French Teach Their Children to Love Healthy Food’ was a particular favourite. I will certainly be adopting the rule of ‘not having to like everything but having to try it at least twice’ with W.
A particular highlight for me was Chapter 3, ‘How Kenyans Live Without Pushchairs’. I myself cannot stand to see three and four year olds being wheeled around like babies when they are perfectly capable of walking good distances.
Chapter eight describes ‘How the Japanese let Their Children Fight’ which is not as gruesome as it sounds. The practice of sometimes just letting kids work things out for themselves, without anyone getting hurt, does make me wonder if in The West we are perhaps too quick to interfere in our own children’s battles.
I must confess to losing some sympathy with the authors own parenting struggles when it transpired, a few chapters in, that not only does she work from home but also employs a nanny. However, I then gave myself a quick slap and reminded myself that parenting is a huge challenge, no matter what your situation, which is exactly the point of this book.
In contrast I found her truthful account of her own recovery from miscarriage, and later experience of an ectopic pregnancy, truly saddening and deeply poignant.
She has done a great deal of research in putting this collection of parenting wisdom together and, despite her constant referencing feeling at times quite laboured, it is still an enjoyable read and there is plenty to make any parent give their own current strategies some thought.
To try it out for yourself I am giving away a copy of this book to five lucky readers so, to be in with a chance of winning your own copy, simply leave me a comment with your best parenting tip AND enter the prize draw via the rafflecopter below.
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Elaine Livingstone (@pooohbear2811) says
enjoy your children, warts and all
louisejedwards says
follow your own instincts/gut feeling
Cat (Yellow Days) says
What they want and what they need are often two completely different things so you need to make that decision for them and not feel bad about it.
melanie stirling says
Give them so much love and always listen to what they have to say,let them know they can always come to you and tell you anything.
Jo welsh says
You will or do know your child and trust your instincts.
Helen Dickinson says
Always listen to them and give them love, support and guidence. Never let anyone tell you you are doing a bad job. x
MsBlue says
That’s a tough one! I would say give them the respect that you would give an elder – they respond very well to respect x
anna m says
just do what you feel, dont think you have to subscribe to one school of parenting – i see some people get too obsessed by all that!
Attachment Mummy says
Follow your child’s lead. they are quite capable of deciding what and when to eat, when to sleep, when to do whatever they need.
kim plant says
house noises wont wake babies infact they sleep more like using the washing machine,hoover and shower x (mummy of twins)
Rebecca Phillips says
Follow your gut instincts. You’re their mother, you know them better than anyone!
CAT WILLIAMS says
Learn from your own mistakes
laura stewart (@lstewarts) says
ask for help
Sam j says
Enjoy your time with them, it is precious
Patricia Owen says
Have fun and enjoy every minute as your children learn new skills but never make them perform “party pieces” for other adults. A child who can enjoy life naturally will have more friends than a precocious one.
John Taggart says
Just enjoy them when they are young they grow up too quick
sarah rees says
trust your instinct and dont be afraid to accept help!
laura banks says
do as i say and not as i do
Miss Tracy Hanson says
Listening is a verb. Listening to your children is different to hearing what they’ve said
Simon G says
Be patient and stay cool
Anna says
Learn from your own mistakes
stacey turner says
be the very best you can. simple but effective
Sarah P says
Trust your instincts
Sarah Spencer says
Be firm but fair
isis1981uk says
To ignore all the advice people give you & just do what feels right to you.
Emily says
relax and try not to let the little things wind you up
Harriet Westcott says
Ignoring tantrums works a treat
Carolin says
Always make times for kisses and cuddles
@caro_mad
tamalyn1 says
get out there and have fun doing great things with your children, too soon they grow up and leave home 🙁
jennifer Toal says
Lots of cuddles even when things get tough make sure your child knows they are loved.
Keith says
Tell them to ask mom
olivia kirby says
Accept help when it’s offered, don’t be proud and love them kids to within an inch of their lives!!
caroline kelly says
think carefully about whether to get a pet instead! lol
Victoria Leedham says
Keep calm and carry on regardless
Kathy Cakebread says
dont give them everything they want let them earn it
Laura F says
I tell my son, ‘tell me the truth and I ll never be mad at you’
Louise says
Do what feels right
Emma k says
Loads of hugs when good and use the naughty step technique when they are not!
Kirsten Murphy says
if you need to give them a row, explain in language they can understand why but don’t drone on and on
clair says
lots of hugs and kisses
Di Coke says
Try not to burden yourself with too much guilt – you’re doing the best job you can!
Ruth Davies says
trust your own judgement all children are different.Enjoy every moment as it goes by so quickly
sharon williams says
Never let things get on top of you. Turn on some music, smile and dance around with the kids.
Belinda Matthews (@dillydondallie) says
Make the most of your kids when they are young they grow so fast
Jane Brown says
Keep as calm as you can in all situations! It helps massively.
geordie brown says
DONT EMULATE OTHER PARENTS. DO WHAT YOU WANT AND BELIEVE IN
Pam Gregory says
Keep your cool, but don’t be afraid to chastise
elizabethyeates555 says
Stay patient and keep calm!
Robyn says
Best bit of parenting advice I got was sleep when baby sleeps xx
angela morgan says
enjoy every day
Prerna Gupta says
enjoy your time with them..they grow very fast!!
Rachael Donovan says
a parent always knows best follow your instinct. I have had 1st hand in this at a hospital mummy does know best!
zoe dennett says
teach your child right from wrong always
Janine Atkin says
try and have patience!
Natalie White says
Be kind even when you don’t want to be!
Judith Luscombe says
Dont worry, you and baby will be okay
susan,hoggett says
enjoy every day with them
Kerry Kilmister says
trust your instincts
Jess (@JJMcGlynn) says
This actually sounds really interesting, it’s funny how we parent in a certain way because of our culture. I’ve added it to my reading list! Thank you for linking up x